Jennifer Lopez speaks on how she wants to raise her kids

Posted on 09 Nov 2011 at 1:03pm

Jennifer is one busy single lady.

But she still tries her best to balance her public life and private life, specially to her twins, Max and Emme.

Lat Monday night, she was crowned the big winner at the Glamour Women of the Year ceremony.

She chatted with reporters from Access Hollywood about how she had gone through a tough year.

She said, “I think I learned in the past year or two is that I can stand on my own two feet, and to give myself credit for that.”

“To really give myself a little bit of love, instead of always beating myself up for what I did not do or how could I have done something better or what else I’m going to do next.”

She was asked on what can she teach to her kids. She said, “That’s the one thing I want to teach my daughter — to love herself, and to feel good on her own, no matter what happens.”

She added, “I just want to teach my kids to be great people, to love themselves , to love others, to treat others with respect and kindness, to know that they are in a privileged position, and to be charitable and work hard..just because you have success doesn’t mean you have to stop doing those things.”

Meanwhile, so many beautiful women attended the event. Stars like Jessica Alba, Emma Stone, Lea Michele and Jennifer Aniston came.

Chelsea Handler also got an award, “Queen of the Night” and ‘Glee’ star Lea Michele was  awarded with ‘The Diva Next Door’ in honor of young women who makes a difference into the world.

J.Lo tweeted after the event, saying, “What an amazing evening..filled with love and beautiful women. Thank You Glamour Mag.. I am truly honored.”

Lea Michele also tweeted, “What an inspiring night tonight at the Glamour Women of The Year Awards. So unbelievable.”